Cut through the noise, find your focus, and finally figure out how to move forward in a way that feels good specifically as a feminine-energy entrepreneur – instead of running on masculine models.

Take the Feminine Entrepreneurship Quiz to find out exactly where you are on the journey and what to focus your energy on >>

You didn’t start this business to feel like a hamster on a wheel, running yourself into the ground just to barely keep up.

You started this for freedom.

Freedom to spend your mornings journaling or walking barefoot through the grass (because you can). Freedom to pour your energy into projects that light you up—and walk away from the ones that don’t. Freedom to create a life where your business works for you, not the other way around.

So why does it feel like no matter how hard you work, you’re still stuck?

Why are you waking up scrolling Instagram, watching someone else crush their six-figure launch, and wondering why everything feels so damn hard for you?

Here’s the truth they never tell you: the problem isn’t you. It’s the model.

Traditional Business Models Weren’t Built for Women or The Feminine

Most of what we know about “how to build a business” is based on masculine energy: structure, speed, and systems.

Don’t get me wrong—the masculine has its place. But when it becomes the whole focus? It drains the very freedom we crave as feminine entrepreneurs.

The feminine doesn’t work like that.

We don’t thrive on hustle, rigidity, or chasing “the next big thing.” We thrive on vision, flow, and freedom. The feminine doesn’t chase; she attracts. She doesn’t force; she feels. And when she’s aligned, she creates magnetic businesses that grow with ease—because they’re built in harmony with how she’s designed to thrive.

But when we try to run our businesses the masculine way? We burn out.

If you’re here, I bet you’re already feeling it. That tightening in your chest. The foggy indecision. The endless cycle of tweaking your sales page, scrolling for inspiration, or trying to figure out why none of this feels fun anymore.

It's not your fault. So many of the strategies being sold to you right now—whether it’s a course, a funnel, or a 7-step program—are missing one critical piece:

They don’t know where you are in your business journey.

And without that clarity, you end up throwing money, time, and energy at solutions that don’t actually fit the phase or challenges you’re facing. It’s no wonder you’re burnt out.

That’s why I created a quiz to help you figure out exactly where you are in the feminine entrepreneur journey—and more importantly, who you’re being inside that phase.

Because here’s what I know:

• Every phase of your business journey is different.

• Each phase has specific needs—and specific traps that keep you stuck.

• And unless you know which identity you’re embodying right now, you’ll end up trying to solve the wrong problem (again).

Let me show you what I mean.

The Feminine Entrepreneur Journey

I’ve spent years working with and researching feminine – and after years of also working with the masculine entrepreneurs I noticed defining differences in how the feminine entrepreneur operates (and how she burns out the more she follows masculine ways). 

Every feminine entrepreneur moves through three distinct phases as her business grows:

1. The Solopreneur Phase: Where it all begins. You’re figuring out how to build something that works while staying true to the freedom you crave.

2. The CEO in the Making Phase: Your business has grown, and now you’re leading—systems, team, and clients all coming together.

3. The Thought Leader Phase: You’ve built the business. Now, you’re shaping culture, leading movements, and leaving your mark.

Each phase brings its own opportunities—and challenges. In each phase, there are healthy identities that make business feel expansive and good but if you’re not careful, the unhealthy versions of these identities keep you spinning, stuck, or second-guessing every step.

The key to moving forward is knowing exactly where you are—and exactly how to shift into alignment.

TAKE THE QUIZ TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU AND WHAT YOU NEED TO FOCUS ON

Phase 1: The Solopreneur Phase

This is where it all begins.

You’ve just started building your business, and it’s all on your shoulders. You’re experimenting, finding your flow, and trying to figure out what works—not just for your clients, but for you.

But here’s the thing about the Solopreneur Phase: it sets the tone for everything that comes next.

If you don’t get clear on your vision, your energy, and your focus, you’ll end up hustling for the sake of hustling—spending hours on tasks that don’t actually move the needle, tweaking and reworking without feeling like you’re ever making progress.

In this phase you’re either The Intentional Creator (or the unhealthy version, The Reluctant Hustler) or you’re in the Flow-Focused Feminine (Flow-Struck Feminine).

I wonder which one sounds like you….

The Intentional Creator vs The Reluctant Hustler

WHEN YOU SLIP INTO THE RELUCTANT HUSTLER…

You’re busy as hell, but going nowhere.

You’re either creating from a place of confidence and flow—or dragging yourself through the kind of hustle that makes you question if this is even worth it. And when things slip out of alignment? It’s not just your business that feels the strain—it’s your body, your energy, your whole damn life.

The day starts the same way: your alarm barely cuts through the fog, and the first thing you grab is your phone. Notifications, emails, another business coach on Instagram showing off their “effortless” six-figure launch. You want to look away, but the comparison pulls you in.

By the time you drag yourself to your laptop, the coffee’s already cold, and the to-do list is endless. Everything feels urgent, but nothing gets done.

You’ve got ideas—a million ideas—but none of them stick.

• You’ll rework your sales page for the fifth time.

• Tweak your Instagram bio.

• Scroll Pinterest for brand colors, like that’s the thing that will finally make you feel legit.

But deep down, you know the truth: you’re spinning your wheels.

And it’s not just your business that’s feeling it—your body is too. Tight shoulders, shallow breaths, exhaustion that coffee can’t fix. You’re trying to keep up, but the pace is crushing you.

You think you’re “almost there.” But if you’re honest, you’ve been saying that for months.

Don’t just sit there nodding—take the quiz and get your next step mapped out.

YOU’RE IN ALIGNMENT WHEN YOU’RE THE INTENTIONAL CREATOR…

You’re crystal clear, and everything flows.

When you’re in your zone, it’s electric. You don’t wake up scrolling—you wake up with a plan. The ideas don’t overwhelm you because you know which ones to follow and which ones to leave behind.

Your to-do list isn’t endless anymore. It’s sharp, focused, and designed to move the needle. And instead of being buried in busywork, you’re creating—offers, systems, strategies that feel good to you and to the people who buy from you.

Your mornings are calm, intentional. Your afternoons are steady, productive. And your evenings? You’re not chained to your desk anymore—you’re actually resting because you’ve earned it.

Your energy feels steady, your confidence feels unshakable, and your business? It’s finally working for you.

Sound like this might be you? Take the quiz to find out!

The Flow-Focused Feminine vs The Flow Struck Feminine

When You Slip Into the Flow-Struck Feminine…

(This is the soft kind of stuck—just as frustrating, but harder to spot.)

Your body feels like it’s buzzing and sluggish all at once—your nervous system constantly toggling between restlessness and freeze.

Your space is a vibe—candles, cozy blankets, maybe even some lo-fi beats in the background. But your energy? Scattered. Your to-do list? Still untouched.

The energy is right, but the progress? Practically nonexistent.

You’re floating in a haze of ideas: a course, an ebook, a podcast—but none of them are taking shape.

You’ve mastered the art of almost starting, but every time you think about actually committing, you freeze.

You’re indulging in “productive procrastination”—tweaking Canva templates, scrolling for inspiration, or researching systems that you never actually use.

It’s like you’ve traded the hustle grind for a different kind of frustration—one that feels softer but just as suffocating.

Your energy feels scattered, like you’re holding onto too many threads at once but can’t weave them into anything meaningful. Your body feels heavy, your mind foggy, and your emotions? A cocktail of guilt, self-doubt, and restlessness.

You want to move forward, but every step feels like a mountain. And the idea of adding structure or systems? It feels like slipping back into the rigidity you escaped—like you’d be giving up the freedom you worked so hard to create.

You tell yourself you need “more clarity” or “the perfect system” to move forward, but deep down, you know the truth:

It’s time to stop floating and start grounding—your nervous system, sanity, and bank account will thank you for it.

If this is hitting a little too close to home, it’s time to take the quiz.

When You’re in Alignment as the Flow-Focused Feminine…

(This is where your creativity meets momentum.)

You’re locked in, lit up, and seeing it all pay off.

Your mornings are intentional, but they’re no longer just about the vibe—they’re the springboard momentum. The candle is still flickering, the playlist is still soft, but now, you’re building.

Your ideas have direction. You’ve traded indecision for clear priorities, and every day, you’re moving one step closer to your vision.

Your systems feel like a sanctuary—soft, intuitive, and designed to catch your brilliance without boxing it in.

Your projects are moving from concept to completion. No more abandoned tasks or half-finished plans—you’re following through, and it feels incredible.

Your energy? Light, focused, and steady. Your confidence? Unshakable, because every aligned action reinforces your self-trust.

And the best part? You’ve figured out how to honor your creativity and your progress. You’re no longer afraid of structure because you’ve made it your own—supportive, flexible, and deeply aligned.

This isn’t just flow. It’s focused flow, and it’s the secret to creating a business that works for you, not against you.

Not sure what’s holding you back? The quiz will tell you—and show you how to shift.

Phase 2: The CEO in the Making Phase

You’ve grown beyond the solopreneur hustle. The business is no longer just you—there are more moving parts now: systems, team, clients, and the bigger vision you’re starting to scale toward.

This phase is where you step into true leadership—but alignment here is critical. Because without it, the same freedom you craved when you started can slip through your fingers, leaving you overwhelmed and reactive.

The Stabilized CEO vs The Chaotic CEO

When You Slip Into the Chaotic CEO…

(This is where the wheels fall off.)

Your body feels like it’s both wired and exhausted—your nervous system stuck in a relentless loop of urgency, lurching between fight and freeze.

You’re juggling so many moving parts that it feels like every ball is about to drop. Your team? Lost in the shuffle, waiting for direction you don’t have time to give. Your systems? Scattered, half-built, or ignored altogether. Your clients? Falling through the cracks while you’re chasing the next sale.

It’s not just messy; it’s exhausting.

You’re either micromanaging every detail or ghosting responsibilities entirely, hoping someone else will figure it out.

You tell yourself, “If I just push through this launch, I’ll have time to breathe,” but deep down, you know the cycle will only repeat.

Your energy feels stretched to the breaking point—like a rubber band ready to snap. Instead of feeling like the leader of a movement, you’re scrambling to keep the wheels from falling off the bus—and if you’re honest, you’re reacting emotionally because you’re triggered AF (don’t lie, you are).

This isn’t the freedom you dreamed of. This isn’t the legacy you set out to build. The stress is bubbling under the surface, whispering, “Why isn’t this working?”

And the worst part? You’re not sure how to stop the chaos without everything grinding to a halt.

You want to take a step back and refocus, but everything feels urgent, like if you stop—even for a second—it’ll all fall apart. And the idea of slowing down? It feels impossible when there’s so much riding on every move you make.

It’s time to stop spiraling and start stepping up, because the longer you let this slide and don’t take radical responsibility, the more it costs you—your energy, your clients, and the team who’s counting on you to lead.

Feeling called out? Good. Let’s figure out where you are—and how to move forward. Take the quiz now.

You’re in Alignment as the Stabilized CEO…

(This is where everything works together.)

You’re the eye of the storm: calm, collected, and completely in control.

Your team runs like a well-oiled machine, with every player knowing their role and owning it. They’re not waiting for last-minute updates or vague voice notes—they’re confident, clear, and fully invested because you’ve set the standard.

Your systems? Streamlined, intuitive, and designed to free up your mental space so you can focus on what you do best—whether it’s creating, vision-casting, or diving deep into the work that lights you up.

You’ve stopped overloading your plate with new offers and instead focused on refining what already works—creating an ecosystem that serves your clients so deeply they keep coming back for more. Your clients rave about the experience because it’s seamless, intentional, and designed with their transformation in mind.

Your mornings are calm but intentional—your coffee hot, your priorities clear, your energy grounded. You’re not just putting out fires; you’re fueling your vision with deliberate, aligned action.

Your calendar reflects your priorities, not someone else’s chaos.
Your team moves in rhythm with you, not behind you in a frenzy to catch up.
Your clients aren’t just satisfied—they’re obsessed.

Your confidence? Unshakable. Every decision you make reflects the bigger vision you’re building, and every move reinforces the trust you have in yourself and your business.

This isn’t just leadership. It’s liberation.

And it’s the foundation for the freedom, wealth, and legacy you set out to create in the first place.

The Satisfied CEO vs The Overextended CEO

When You Slip Into the Overextended CEO…

(This is where it feels like too much.)

Your business looks solid from the outside—steady revenue, a capable team, and systems that have gotten you this far. But beneath the surface, there’s a tension you can’t ignore. It’s not chaos, but it’s not freedom either.

You’re carrying more than you let on, and depending on your path, it’s weighing you down in one of two ways:

• If You’re The Over-Scaler:
  Your business is growing at full speed—launches, offers, and opportunities stacking up so fast that it’s outpacing your ability to manage it all. Your team is scrambling to keep up, your systems are stretched thin, and your once-tight client experience is starting to slip.

Every day feels like a sprint to the next milestone, and you tell yourself that if you just push through, things will settle down. But deep down? You know that “more” isn’t fixing the cracks—it’s making them bigger.

• If You’re The Plateaued CEO:
  Your business is steady—profitable, predictable, and “working.” But it doesn’t feel exciting anymore. You’re craving expansion, yet every bold move feels like a risk you’re not ready to take.

Your offers feel flat, your team is comfortable but uninspired, and your vision feels out of reach. The stability you’ve built is starting to feel less like freedom and more like a cage, and you can’t shake the feeling that you’re playing small.

No matter which path you’re on, the stress is starting to build.

You’re either sprinting so fast you can’t catch your breath or standing so still you’re suffocating. You feel stretched thin, like every decision carries too much weight, and the longer you stay here, the more disconnected you feel—from your vision, your team, and even yourself.

This isn’t the freedom you dreamed of. This isn’t the legacy you set out to create. And while you’re holding it together, you know that if something doesn’t shift soon, it won’t just be your business that suffers—it’ll be you.

It’s time to step back, recalibrate, and take control. Because the longer you let this tension simmer, the more it costs you: your energy, your clients, and the impact you’re here to make.

You’re in Alignment as the Satisfied CEO…

(This is where growth feels spacious.)

Your business doesn’t just operate; it expands. It’s designed for growth—not frantic, slapdash growth, but intentional, strategic, legacy-making expansion.

Your team are leaders in their own right. They don’t just execute—they innovate and elevate.

You’ve built a leadership culture where every person operates at their highest level, not waiting for you to approve every decision but proactively driving the vision forward.

Your systems are built for scale. We’re not talking about the basics; we’re talking about high-level automations, scalable workflows, and infrastructure so solid it feels like magic. Whether it’s launching a new offer, onboarding dozens of clients, or stepping into new markets, everything is dialed in to support growth without creating chaos.

Your offers are not just selling; they’re elevating. You’ve created an ecosystem where every offer feels like a natural next step for your clients—each one deeper, richer, and more transformative than the last.

Your energy is spacious and intentional. Your calendar isn’t packed with fires to put out; it’s a reflection of your priorities. You have time to dream, innovate, and lead with clarity.

And your role? Visionary. You’ve created a business that runs without your constant input, freeing you to focus on the next level of thought leadership, strategic partnerships, and legacy-level moves.

This isn’t just success—it’s freedom.

Phase 3: The Thought Leader Phase

This is legacy work.

You’ve built the business. You’ve scaled it. And now, it’s time to lead—not just your team or your clients, but movements. This phase is about stepping into your full power and creating something that shapes industries, redefines norms, and leaves a mark that will be felt for generations.

But here’s the thing: with this level of visibility, responsibility, and influence comes a new layer of pressure. And without alignment, you risk leading from force or fear—losing yourself in the process.

The Movement Maker vs The Forceful Founder

When You Slip Into the Forceful Founder…

(This is where the power starts to break you.)

Your movement might look powerful from the outside—growing influence, an engaged audience, and the appearance of unstoppable momentum. But beneath the surface, there’s a disconnection you can’t ignore. It’s not failure, but it’s not fulfillment either.

You’re carrying more than anyone sees, and depending on how it’s playing out, it’s weighing you down in one of two ways:

• If You’re The Righteous Crusader:
  You’re leading like it’s a battle, pushing harder and harder to make things happen. The fire you started with has turned into a pressure cooker, and every step forward feels like an exhausting fight to keep the mission alive.

Your team feels more like a weight to manage than allies to rely on, and collaboration feels like a risk you can’t afford.

The harder you grip, the more things slip—your audience, your team, and even your energy. You keep telling yourself that more effort, more speed, or more control will fix it. But deep down? You know the way you’re leading is breaking the very foundation you’ve worked so hard to build.

• If You’re The Disconnected Icon:
  You’re still showing up, but it’s more about keeping up appearances than leading with heart. The brand is polished, the opportunities are there, but the soul of your mission? It’s nowhere to be found.

You’ve become so focused on how things look—the visibility, the recognition, the reputation—that you’ve lost touch with what it feels like to lead from purpose.

Your audience is starting to sense it too; they might still follow, but the spark that once connected them to your movement is fading. You’re not just disconnected from them—you’re disconnected from yourself.

You’re in Alignment as the Movement Maker…

(This is where leadership becomes legacy.)

Your movement isn’t just growing—it’s alive. It’s not about control or appearances but about leading with heart and purpose, inspiring others to rise with you.

Your audience isn’t just passive—they’re activated. They see themselves in your mission and feel called to be part of it. They’re not just followers—they’re believers, co-creators, and champions of your work.

Your message doesn’t just land—it shifts perspectives. It’s not polished for the sake of perfection—it’s powerful, raw, and full of the heart that inspired the movement to begin with.

Your energy is intentional and impactful. You’re not caught up in the grind of appearances or the weight of control—you have the space to dream, innovate, and show up as the leader your movement needs.

And your role? Conduit for a powerful message. You’re not carrying the movement on your own—you’re guiding it, trusting the people around you, and letting the mission grow beyond what you ever imagined.

This isn’t just leadership—it’s legacy.

Think you know where you’re at – like you’re a thought leader? Bet you don’t. Take the quiz and prove me wrong.

The Cultural Powerhouse vs The Corrupt Powerhouse

When You Slip Into the Corrupt Powerhouse…

(This is where the weight of influence consumes you.)

Your body feels heavy, like the weight of the world is pressing on your chest. Your mind is racing, caught in an endless loop of calculation and control—plotting the next move to protect the empire at all costs.

Your presence, once magnetic and inspiring, now feels brittle. You’re gripped by hypervigilance, scanning for threats, critics, or cracks in the carefully constructed image you’ve built.

The team you once empowered feels like a liability instead of an asset—either disengaged or too afraid to speak the truth. The partnerships you’ve cultivated? Hollow, transactional, and draining, because they’re built on strategy, not alignment.

Your mission, the one that once felt like your life’s purpose, has been replaced by a relentless hunger for influence and relevance. It’s no longer about the change you set out to make—it’s about keeping the machine running and staying at the top.

And yet, despite the public applause and the spotlight, there’s a gnawing emptiness inside. The work feels hollow. The connections feel shallow. And the legacy you’re building? Fragile as glass, ready to shatter under the weight of misalignment.

You’ve stepped into survival mode disguised as power. Every decision feels high-stakes, every move calculated to protect the empire, and every bit of joy feels like it’s slipping through your fingers.

This isn’t what you set out to create.
This isn’t what leadership was supposed to feel like.

And deep down, you know—if you don’t find your way back to integrity, the empire you’ve built could consume you from the inside out.

It’s time to ask yourself: Is the legacy you’re building one that the world will revere—or one it will rally against because you’ve lost yourself in greed?

You’re in Alignment as the Cultural Powerhouse…

(This is where you take the throne.)

Your presence is a force of nature. You don’t just walk into a room—you own it.

The energy shifts, conversations pause, and all eyes lock on you—not because you demand it, but because your grounded authority commands it without effort.

Your legacy? It’s not just something people talk about; it’s something they feel.

You’ve stopped running after power because you are power. You wield it with unshakable precision, shaping industries, igniting conversations, and setting the cultural standard. Your vision isn’t just big—it’s unstoppable, and it’s rewriting the world in ways that will be felt for generations.

This isn’t just leadership—it’s the throne.
This isn’t just success—it’s legacy in motion.

This is the moment you’ve been working toward—the one where your name isn’t just remembered; it’s revered.

And your legacy? It doesn’t just shift the world—it defines it.

Stop wasting energy on the wrong moves. Take the quiz and focus on what actually matters.

You don’t need another strategy, another hack, or someone else’s blueprint. 

You need clarity—clarity on where you are, what’s holding you back, and where your energy needs to go.

That’s why I created this quiz.

Because as a feminine entrepreneur, I know how easy it is to get stuck—trying to force yourself into systems that don’t fit, pouring energy into things that aren’t aligned, and wondering why the freedom you dreamed of feels so out of reach.

This quiz is your chance to cut through the overwhelm, step out of the spin, and figure out exactly what you need to focus on to move forward.

It’s time to stop working harder and start working in alignment.

Take the quiz now, and let’s uncover the clarity you’ve been craving.

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